Friday, February 14, 2014

Life In Ghana


I finally have internet!  Thank you all for your patience, I should be able to update my blog more frequently now.  So much has happened in my time in Ghana already.  I have been at the City of Refuge site for several weeks now.  I am still waiting for a dull moment here, but something tells me I shouldn’t hold my breath.  Let me begin with telling you about the wonderful organization that I am working with.

City of Refuge is a center for children rescued from human trafficking.  In Ghana, there is a large river, the Volta River, which runs north to south through the country.  Poverty in northern regions drive parents to look for better solutions for their children.  They are promised a better life for their child if they send them to work along the river.  Parents are promised a life for their child.  They are told they will be taken care of, fed, and given an education.  Unfortunately, this is rarely the case.

Children are forced to give up their childhood, and work on the boats.  The days are long and grueling, not to mention dangerous.  Children are expected to dive down into the lake and untangle the nets that are caught on the tree roots far below the surface.  They are forced into child labor and deprived of an education.  In addition to the hardships of the lake, they frequently become victims of physical and sexual abuse.  Their childhood is stripped away from they and most of them will never get it back. 

Here, at City of Refuge, children have the right to a childhood.  They finally have a place to call home.  They are given more food than they can eat, given an education, and are loved immensely.  Most children don’t know when their birthday is or how old they are when they arrive.  Upon their arrival, their birthday becomes the day that they were rescued by City of Refuge.  Their new birthday respresents the day they were given a second chance at life.  Johnbull and Stacy, the directors of the organization, have taken all the children in as their own.  It’s common to see a house full of children sprawled across the floor of their living room while watching soccer in the evenings.  They are one big happy family.  

There is also a school on the CORM (City of Refuge Mission) site called Faith Roots International.  This school has 240 students, including the children that have been rescued.  I have been working at this school for the last couple weeks.  I tutor English and reading to struggling students.  Even though all of the children speak English, there are plenty that are unable to read.  I also teach a science and health class to students.  I haven’t really taught before, so this is definitely stretching me outside of my comfort zone.  I like it. 

My biggest role is the school and CORM nurse.  This, in itself, is a full time job.  It doesn’t end at 5 o’clock, or take Sundays off to rest.  It’s constant.  It has been amazing and exhausting, all at the same time.  I have also been able to make home visits for sick students, go with them to the clinic or hospital, and be their advocate for better care.  I went back to school for nursing after my last trip to Africa in hopes that I would be able to use my degree to make more of a difference upon my return.  I am finally doing it.  I worked hard for four years to get back to Africa, and finally, I am here.  It’s scary and definitely has its challenges.  It’s forcing me to think outside the box, look beyond my own perspective, into medical care for another culture.  It’s unfamiliar, and constantly surprises me, but I love it. 

It feels like a huge responsibility to me.  I prayed for so long for God to use me, to send me.  Here I am, in Africa.  I am so lucky to be here and have this opportunity to help.  Not many other people are this lucky.  I feel like I need to work that much harder because I have been blessed enough to come back to Africa yet again.  So, here I am.  I am trying to live in each moment, enjoy each African sunrise, and give more hugs than I thought humanly possible.  It’s a little slice of paradise here with so many intelligent, unique children.  It’s a constant reminder of how beautiful life is, and how blessed I am to experience it.  As another day comes to a close, and the knocks of tiny hands on my door start to dwindle, I drift off to sleep to wake up early and enjoy another African sunrise.   

 

Friday, January 17, 2014

On my way


This day is finally here.  The day I return to Africa!  I have made it to JFK so far, just waiting for my connection to Accra, Ghana.  One more flight and I will be there!  I went to the airport nice and early this morning, leaving at 4:00am.  Being dropped off at the airport to fly to Africa for 6 months reminds me of being dropped off for your first day of school.  It begins with a tearful goodbye and some separation anxiety of all things familiar.  There is that moment of panic where you lose sight of your family.  You look around frantically, worried that they might have snuck off when you broke their gaze to ensure your box of crayons were still in place.  Your eyes scan the horizon to find them in plain sight; smiling, waving, convincing you all is well.  As the time comes for you to go inside, they wait, nodding in encouragement.  They smile a bittersweet smile, excited for the new possibilities you will face, sad that you are moving into a new phase of life.  Reluctantly, they wave goodbye with tear stained cheeks.  Your cheeks are salty as well with thoughts of home. 

                It’s exhilarating and terrifying at the same time.  Fear of getting lost in your scary, new world overwhelms you.  You approach the door timidly with the thought of school yard bullies clouding your head.  Africa holds a wide variety of school yard bullies, ranging from jiggers to corruption.  They are both frightening.

                You glance at the clock and it reads 8:00am.  The day is just beginning.  Your thoughts wander and a smile drifts onto your face.  You think about that moment when you hear the final bell, dash out the door, and see your family waiting on the other side.  You distribute hugs after what seems like an eternity.  You share a piggy bank full of stories that you have accumulated over the entirety of one day, content to be in their presence again.           

                The teacher begins her lesson and you are brought back to the reality of the new day.  You look around the room, excited to see who will become your best friend over the next 7 hours.  You miss your family, your familiarity, your home; but until 3 0’clock rolls around, there’s work to be done and adventures to be had.  You take all the love that your home has shown you and turn it into courage to venture off into your scary, new world; full of sloppy joes and possibilities.